Is thier a good woman out thier for me ,I m 33 and have not found her should i just give up?

Quit trying so hard, back off a tad here and let love find you my friend as it will when you least expect it but then its going to be up to you to know when it does show up and what to do with it once you do

You should keep looking, don't ever be a quitter, and never give up :))