Yo Kass answered
There are two main issues that need looking at here: A) why you are wetting the bed, and b) what you should do about it.
My advice would be to approach both of them in a calm and sensitive way. It sounds to me as if both you and your girlfriend are facing an awkward and challenging time, so why not sit down together and consider the following:
Adult diapers and wetting the bed
1) You need to address why you are wetting the bed one way or another. You talk about 'moving on' but (if you ever intend to share a bed with anyone else ever again) you'll need to get to the bottom of this issue.
2) If you feel uncomfortable wearing diapers then you shouldn't have to. Discuss the reasons why your girlfriend thinks this is the only solution, and try suggesting some alternatives.
My girlfriend wants me to wear nappies
Adults wetting the bed- it might sound funny but it isn't as uncommon as you might think. Incontinence is the proper term for the problem, and it can be caused by a number of things ranging from anxiety, or drinking too much, to bowel problems. The best thing to do to get to the bottom of this issue is to speak to you healthcare provider. Only a trained professional will be able to definitively help you end your bed-wetting days.
As far as the diapers go, if you feel uncomfortable with that option then you need to make that clear to your girlfriend. She might be getting a little frustrated at the idea of waking up soaked in your urine several times a month, so talking to her is pretty important if you have any hopes of keeping this relationship going.
My advice would be to approach both of them in a calm and sensitive way. It sounds to me as if both you and your girlfriend are facing an awkward and challenging time, so why not sit down together and consider the following:
Adult diapers and wetting the bed
1) You need to address why you are wetting the bed one way or another. You talk about 'moving on' but (if you ever intend to share a bed with anyone else ever again) you'll need to get to the bottom of this issue.
2) If you feel uncomfortable wearing diapers then you shouldn't have to. Discuss the reasons why your girlfriend thinks this is the only solution, and try suggesting some alternatives.
My girlfriend wants me to wear nappies
Adults wetting the bed- it might sound funny but it isn't as uncommon as you might think. Incontinence is the proper term for the problem, and it can be caused by a number of things ranging from anxiety, or drinking too much, to bowel problems. The best thing to do to get to the bottom of this issue is to speak to you healthcare provider. Only a trained professional will be able to definitively help you end your bed-wetting days.
As far as the diapers go, if you feel uncomfortable with that option then you need to make that clear to your girlfriend. She might be getting a little frustrated at the idea of waking up soaked in your urine several times a month, so talking to her is pretty important if you have any hopes of keeping this relationship going.
