My Best Friend Has Just Turned Against Me And Is Now Turning All Of My Other Friends Against Me. I Don't Even Know Why She Hates Me, What Should I Do?

This same thing has happened to me. My Previous EX-BEST FRIEND has suddenly become jealous of a friendship that I have formed with someone at university and has chosen a silly reason for us to fall out. I understand that people drift apart but I kept asking myself why didn't she just tell me how she felt. I then heard from a mutual friend that she was jealous of the friendships that I had formed at university and how close I was to people there and then a few weeks later I also heard that she was angry because of my new boyfriend. When we got together she never told me how she felt about our relationship and she seemed very happy for us. In th past few days I have found out that the main reason we fell out and she tried to turn some of my friends against me was simply because of here jealousy. Her and her boyfriend were not happy together but were together simply because she wasn't alone and the main reason she didnt like my new friendship with people at university was because previously she had been particularly close to one girl that I was friendly with and they had fallen out in the past and not made up.

Looking back at the whole situation and friendship it seems petty as to why we fell out, but if friendships can be torn apart so easily it made me think "Were we really friendly to begin with?"  

I know this doesn't really answer your questions but sometimes friendships are worth loosing.

Please don't panic, give it a few days, and then try to talk to her about what this is all about. Sometimes time away from the situation can calm things down enough so that both people or all people can talk about the problem. I am sorry that you are going through this. Good luck to you.

Friendships are hard at your age and girls especially get insecure and question themselves.  I am not sure of the circumstances why she turned against you, but she could be jealous of you and trying to turn your other friends against you gives her a power trip that she needs to offset her jealousy.

If you truly care about your friendship with her, go to her house and tell her you want to talk.  Tell her how much the friendship means to you and tell her why the friendship is important.  I will work out!

I'm sure that this happens to everyone at one point in their life, and if it doesnt they must be very lucky, I am going through this to, my best friend and I had fallen out because of my boyfriend who is now my ex, and when I told him I didnt want to go out with him anymore because all my friends were like 'ahh, don't go out with him, he's an idiot' it really annoyed me, my best friend was even saying that, then she goes and be's his friend again as they're in the same form and sit next to each other in every lesson, I'm always backing her up and I'm always there for her when she needs someone to comfort her or be there for her, but is she there for me? No, and she's not talking to me now and taken me off her box on facebook and msn name, but this thime I really don't know what ive done, and she wont tell me, we've argued together with someone else and I know how horrible she can get, when she's made up her mind thats it. My group is all 'best friends' together but once one turns on the other, they always go on the person thats being horrible side, I really hope our best friends come round :/

Just be very nice to everyone make evryone go to your friend an say .. "what did she do shes fine" and if you don't know what you did go to youre friend and say "lets work this out .. I want to b on the same page ..like lets discuss this because I don't want this to be for nothin if you don't even giv me a chance to make it up to you". And if you hav other friends talk to them make them c where your coming frm :) and things will be bettr trust me . Time is the best medication for this stuff .

This happened to me last year. Try talking to some of your other friends, maybe they will tell you the problem. Maybe the compatibility between friends is bad in this case.

Wow, my ex bestfriend has turned everyone against me all because she was jealous ppl liked and hung out with me more.. I've been so depressed and crying..

I am going through this right now as well in a way it sucks,because she tells people not to talk to me but other people are just like you don't tell what to do I can to anyone I want to.I have made new friends and I have realized I am happier without her

The same thing is happening to me and I don't know what to tell you except find other friends. I did it and I realized I'm happier. Its going to be ok!

This totally happens to 90% of people sometime in their life.   All I can say is that the younger you are, the easier it is to get over.   It is easier to make friends in high school than in college or a job.  

Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years and are happy with each other.   We met as part of a group of friends that drank and hung out together.   One of the other girls in the group was jealous and wanted to date me because her boyfriend is the dumb embarrassing drunk with a tiny dick, and I beat him up drunk a few times.   So she blabs her mouth about how I'm a jerk and asshole and my girlfriend's a bitch to the other friends.   The whole shitty group of friends decides to not talk to us anymore.
It's not like this is the only group of friends I've ever had, but I'm in my last year of college and it's just hard to start looking for another group of friends.   Maybe moving to a new area would help.

Good luck to everyone, life sucks go buy the soundtrack.