How Do You Know If One Of Your Friends Really Hates You But Doesn't Show It, Like Acts Like Friend?

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Anonymous answered
I have the same problem with my friend, she's always being rude to ME. I have 3 ways she/he would be faking your friendship.
1. Ditching you
2. Being rude
3.talking to other friends instead of you
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If you call them constantly and ask them to hang out with you. Every time you ask though they have something to do or they can't come over or you can't go over there. Then if they see you in public or something they act like your not even there unless you go up to them for something. They don't even care about you they just act it towards you so you don't know because they don't want to upset you or there afraid to. This is about the worst kind of friend
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I think when they most of the time avoid you. And when they see you try to hang around the person and they always say some excuse to get out of hanging around them. Also when you ask to be partners for some type of project and she declines every single time.

  - a 5th grader and 10 year old
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Hallie baker answered
I have had this situation with my ex best friend. Notice the ex and it constantly happens. Breaking up making up but when you make up YOU feel as if it isn't a big deal and don't really want to be her friend. Hopefully you will notice with actions and this friend talking about you behind your back. Figures she hates you! Ditch her. You are worth more than that.
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Renee Yates answered
I would hope that their actions would be the proof. Confide in them about something that you don't consider important and see if they keep it to themselves. There are many ways that you can test a friendship to know if it genuine.
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vijanti dhanji answered
Well this usually happens within friend circles. And frankly speaking it has happened with me too. One of my friend who I considered, a very nice and close friend, used to back-bite and spread rumours about me. In the beginning I didn't know who it was, and I used to share my points of views with her all the time. But as time went by I realized who it was and then she realized that what she was doing wasn't right.

So you see, if your friends talk about you or spread rumours, this is usual, because they envy you, it can be due to various reason, maybe you are popular or you have many friends or your beautiful. So in this case you should be just as good as you are, because goodness is the only weapon against evil. Even if you find out who that person is, just relax and wait for the right time, that person will come up themselves and admit their mistake. All these things happen when you're in a friend circle so just relax and be good.
thanked the writer.
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kara mochak commented
Well actually I found out that the jealous part is true. My best friend was totally jealous because I was popular and pretty...that's what she said at least.
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I had these two friends who I thought were my friends. For now they are not because I caught them talking about me on facebook. They made these inside jokes and one said, "What if it reads this." the other said, "It is not smart enough. It won't figure it out." Then the other one was laughing. They don't know that I know. Right now I am very upset. They said other things also that my other friends can see. I don't know what to do!
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Tariq Habib answered
To judge someone's hatred or love is not an easy task. Sometimes your friends or relatives show a great deal of love and sincerity while they are not at all fair in their relations. Some times we feel that they hate us through their behavior and attitude while in reality they don't. Your question, how do you know if one of your friends really hates you but does not show it, acts like friend is not easy to be answered yet I will try it.
Some tips can be tested to know whether one of your friends really hates you or not.
1. Do some sort of business with your friends and check their sincerity in dealings. Check how do they maintain accounts, how efficiently they work and how they distribute profit and loss?
2. Test your friends in the time of trouble and needs and see how each of your friends helps you during that time. You can easily check through their acts and actions their sincerity and love for you.
I think through these tips, you can easily check which one of your friends really hates you but does not show it.
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My friend is a jerk to me!She hangs out with this other girl and NEVER is  partners  with me.One of  my friends  said he said I was too ''Girly'' to be her friend anymore.Screw that! I will NEVER talk to her again!
  1:Dich him\her 2:Ignore them!!!!!   XD
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Anonymous answered
I hav the same problem.   My friends never acknowledge me nor do they invite me to outings.  Likewise they strted a rumor about me and I never hang out with them because they are too "busy".  What should I do?!?
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I have a friend in my groups of friend that doesn't look and talk to me at all. I try to talk to her, but she'd ignore. She's friends with my friends, I'm friends with her friends, but we're not exactly "friends". She's in almost all my classes, too. What should I do?
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I found some of my best-est cousins ripped diary pages in the garbage and I read them and I was so devastated, but I would tell her that I don't  want to be friends or at least stop hanging out with her and hopefully she'll get the clue, and the point is to stop being friends with her before she tells you she doesn't want to be friends.
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A friend who is not busy all the time for you is a friend who is still interested in befriending you. A "friend" who have no time to call you even just to say hello is not interested, because a call of hello is not really a hello, it is that, that person misses you and want to hear your voice. Excuses for whatever, is a sign of being polite to say, "I don't like to do things with you, can you get it to thick brain, bone head?" it's true, really. Until you get tired of asking, and stop. There, the person rid you of him or vice versa.
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Well, I want to know so I don't hang out with them anymore. So can you tell me how do you know if one of your friends hates you, but acts like she or he loves you?
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Umm well I wrote this really long comment and don't know if it was posted I'm NOT writing that again though soo OH WELL .

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