My Boyfriend Doesn't Pay Attention To Me Any More? What Should I Do?

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Charlie Proofer answered
If your boyfriend isn’t paying attention to you, it can be hard. Firstly, try to think if you have done anything to annoy him. The answer to that is probably no, you haven’t as you would have some idea of why he wasn’t paying attention to you and wouldn’t need to ask. So if you know it’s not your fault you need to find out from him.

If he loves you and what’s bothering him is something to do with his life and he doesn’t want to bother you with it as like most guys, he won’t want to show that he gets upset or that things can bother him. Especially to you as he’ll feel like he has to be strong otherwise you might think less of him. Here you’ve got to talk to him tell him how much you love him and that you want to be able to help him through his troubles, just as he probably does with you. You have to make sure he know that it’s ok to tell you he’s upset and that he’s does not have to pretend to be strong enough to deal with everything on his own. Tell him that you want to help him and that he should allow you to as he has no reason to protect you. You are a couple and strong couples need to be able to help each other when one of them has worry or a problem.

Here we come to the darker side of the reason why he may not be paying attention to you. Guys can be horrible at times and he may have done something to betray you, such as go out with another girl. Or he may not have feelings for you anymore. Here though it’s hard especially if you still love him. You need to ask him and get him to tell you if any of these are true. If it is correct that he has cheated on you then that it is all down to you. You can forgive him if it was a one off mistake and completely out of his character, but in most cases that won’t be true and you are realistically better off without him, no matter what he says. You have to focus on you, and do the things that will eventually make you happy. And yes at first without him you may be sad. All humans want companionship as its part of human nature; the thing is you will find someone else who would never even think of cheating on you.

If the case is that his feelings for you have gone then, though it will hurt you to hear it, it eventually will be better for you as it will allow you to move on and find someone else who will love you forever. If you both remain in this relationship where his feeling for you have gone then neither of you will be happy.
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If your boyfriend is not giving you attention, concentrate in yourself don't let him know you are all in to him. You need to start doing things by yourself and demonstrate him you can live with him and without him,but don't tell him that you just have that in your mind and do it. Also don't call him a lot and look for him that makes you look inatractive. Be secure or yourself and don't be available all the time for him. If he really loves you I promise you he is going to respond. Man like women who are confident and don't  seem to be neede. If he doesn't respond move on you deserve better but never beg a guy for attention because if you do it you are not going to receive it and you need to carry yourself with dignity. Love, good luck
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What a bunch of cliche answers. Just talk to him! Tell him how it feels when he doesn't pay attention to you. But don't be an attention whore. If that doesn't work, show him how it feels and pay no attention to him. Otherwise, you might just have to move on and find someone who loves paying attention to you.
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Just be patient. Instead of wondering why, listen to him more or ask him why he doesn't pay attention to you.
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I have the same problem. But what Ive learned over time is that boys come and go but if they truly love you they will come around and be there for you. Sometimes they never stay but the one who really loves you won't be afraid to show his love for you.
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Leave him
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Sam Hill answered
GET BATTERIES AND A VIBRATOR> no . It sounds like this boy is not right for you, he should automatically care for you no matter what. YOU should not have to ask him for affection and attention it should be given to you
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Mine is too, he no longer pay attention to me while we are talking. I always had to try to call him or he might have forgotten that he was talking to me. That suck,
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I have boyfriend that I love so much...The problem is that he does not pay me no attention anymore...I mean we do talk but when he's on facebook playing yoville he starts to tune me out...Everytime when I tell him how I feel he thinks I am trying to pick a fight But I'm not...All I want is some attention...What should I do?
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I am having the same problem, I have talked to him and told him how I feel when he ditches me for his friends and that I wanted to spend the next night alone with him. I went on facebook and seen he posted that he was going to a friends house to watch a movie tonight. What should I do?
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Wow...typical boy when they are afraid that the relation is being too serious..it's OK.. What you can do is..if you want let him go...if he comes back it's all yours...if he doesn't then he never was!! Time goes on and plp change* unfortunately :(

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