Is Talking With Someone Online Same As Cheating?

Just chatting with someone online: Not cheating; Telling someone online he wishes they were at the alter with him: CHEATING! I would be very upset about that. There is no reason whatsoever to be having that kind of chatting going on. How do you know all of this? You should have real proof before confronting him, but he definitely needs to be confronted. If he is serious about being in love with you and wants to marry you, he should be shouting it from roof tops! Not telling people he is single or leaving you soon. I don't think that a guy like that will be able to remain faithful to you. Some might say that online relationships don't mean anything, but you already said that is how you met and fell in love. So you know that it is possible for him to start having real feelings about someone he's talking to online. I think you need to confront him ASAP. He will probably deny it, that is why I asked about proof. If you do have proof present it to him and see what he has to say for himself. In my opinion there is no excuse good enough to make me forgive a guy like that. Dump him and find a real man that will tell everyone he meets how much he loves you! You deserve to be treated right, and I promise that there are good men out there that can give you what you need and want from a relationship. Good luck hun, I know it is hard, but you need to stick up for yourself.

I don't think there is any other way to say this without being rude or insulting..... you must be very stupid to think that a relationship with a man like the one you mentioned will make you happy. It is all right in front of you! What more can you ask for in order to see that this guy doesn't really love you? Do yourself a favor and leave that parasite of a man and read some books on assertiveness and instill some self- esteem in yourself while you're at it. You need to stand up for yourself and now when to draw the line! Get rid of that loser and find someone who doesn't buddy f_ck the computer.

My lover and father of my two children for 8 years did this to me recently.   I never knew anything til he left the computer on.   I called the girl he was talking to and told her husband.   She tells me he was unhappy.   The fact that he shared this with her and not me and the thought of not knowing what else they shared was enough to break my heart into a million pieces it is cheating.   He is single now so he is free game.   I cleared out his account shut off his cell phone and hear that girl is going through an ugly divorce.

Well if he is going online telling people that y'all ain't together then he is being dirty.He don't want want to be with you for real if he telling people that y'all ain't together.

Talking to anyone of the opposite sex online when you are in a marriage or long term relationship IS considered cheating. They say that mental and emotional cheating is worse than the actual physical act because it involve the trust in the relationship.