Men's Jealousy Vs Women's Jealousy

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Yea I agree my boyfriend is way over protective and thinks that every guy is out to pick me up and I get really frustrated with him I try not to show it but it really gets on my nerves and we have spoken about it and he has agreed to stop but if he kept doing it I don't know how long we would of lasted.. So yea my advice just relax and no that she is with you
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Oh how the tables have turned on you.... LOL, The only thing you can do is somehow prove that you are trying to protect her from those men that YOU are nothing like. If you have "taught" her that all men are dogs then she will consider you to be the same way. Now your plan of "protecting" her has back-fired. Like it did with my ex. He wanted me to think that all men were pervs and he succeeded, I didn't even trust HIM. Now all you can do is accept the fact she is is protecting herself by not trusting you, and do what ever it takes to make her feel like your relationship is "safe". Good luck it won't be easy.
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Jealousy can be part of love, and is not necessary a bad thing. I am jealose all the time even if my boyfriend just looks an attactive woman on TV. But I trust him, and won't stop him doing that. I think being jealous is normal, but you need to respect your girlfriend, and try not to restrict her too much. Restriction is not love. Good luck.
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Female viewpoint. I happen to become irritated and back off when I know someone is coming on to me and I'm devoted to a man. All women know the difference between normal conversation with a man or woman and when in fact someone is hitting on her. My problem is that the person I'm with says he has so much faith in me that he doesn't experience jealousy and refuses to have jealousy because it's a negative emotion when at the same time I know what women can be up to and I'm jealous of him. I would point out to your girl that she needs to validate your feelings and turn guys off right away when she's aware of what they're doing. Do all guys feel jealousy and react to it when they're with an attractive woman. Is he faking it???

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