Why Am I So Scared To Talk To People?

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Why Am I So Scared To Talk To People?

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Answer 1

All you really have to do is take a few deep breaths before going over to that person you have to talk to but don't be afraid to go over look that person in the eye and start off with the easiest thing you can say like hi and then if that person says hi back then think of something else like about the weather your favourite tv program just chit chat and you will be 90 % ready but remember don't let someone else put you down to go over to that person because you might want to and that person could only make it worse

Answer 2

If you are shy, he/she may be shy too. In the letter asked him/her if she wants to watch a movie or go to a coffee place. When you are walking with someone you don't see their face your looking straight ahead, which makes it easy to talk to someone. So, try it, when you least expect it you will be talking, and that could even draw you to something else

Answer 3

Swallow your pride!if it is someone you really like write down how you feel ,but don't just give it to them,you might scare them off, be friend with them first. If you don't really know them get to know them after that the heart in you throat feeling will go away. good luck

Answer 4

I had that problem with this guy I really really liked and he didn't even know me but I got the courage just by taking a few deep breaths and thought to myself this will turn out really good, so just think positive thoughts and I asked him out and he said yes, we have been together for about 4 months and it has been the best relationship yet !:)

Answer 5

I think that the best thing to go is to just talk to them and just picture them as a really good friend that you enjoy talking to and sooner or later you will feel comfortable.

Answer 6

Giselle Nottelling answered

Because sometimes people are scared that is called shy and as you get to know them more you will not be shy

Answer 7

It all comes down to confidence unfortunately for example if you had confidence you would be able to talk to people without feeling uncomfortable, you are shy because you have little confidence, the Paul Mckenna, I can make you confident book is good it comes with a CD that you listen to of I night time I have found that it helps I'm so bad sometimes I go to speak and nothing comes out but, it gives you a real uplifting feeling and makes you feel as though you want to face the world head on hope I helped.