How Can I Drive My Man Nuts In Bed?

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Alex Wheeler Profile
Alex Wheeler answered
Driving your man nuts in bed is all about having a little imagination, and if you're asking this question, maybe things have become a little stale between you and your partner, or maybe you just fancy surprising him and reminding him of exactly how very lucky he is to have someone like you.

First of all, why not plan a romantic evening? Consider all of your man's favourite things. Not just sexually (but of course this does come into it later on) but consider what he finds the sexiest outfit on you, his favourite foods, and his favourite music, etc. Then make sure you let him know that he has a surprise waiting for him when he gets home and specify a time and make sure when he arrives, you're donning his favourite outfit on you, his favourite music is playing and that his favourite foods (that can be eaten with your fingers in bed!) are spread across the bed. Then treat your man to a whole night of his favourite things!

Another way to drive your man crazy in bed is to surprise him. All too often, things in a relationship can become too routine and too planned, but why not go out and buy some new underwear or a sexy outfit? Later on, you can get home and emerge wearing it when he's least expecting it and it will shock him into submission!

To drive your man nuts in bed, make sure that you communicate. Don't be afraid to ask him what his fantasies are and what he loves to do or receive the most, he will no doubt be happy to tell you and you can always tell him the same, and this will no doubt turn him on, too.
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Shirley McLean answered
Oral sex....there is a very small bit of skin under the head of a circumsized male that, when nibbled GENTLY, and tongued, will absolutely drive a man wild.  Also, long, slow, wet kisses and gentle bites behind the knees.  Put a pillow under his shins, have him lay on his stomach and go to work.  Take your time; it takes awhile for a man to realize just how good this feels.  Also, just before your man ejaculates, you can feel a "buzzing" along the urethra underneath the shaft of the penis. Place your lips on this area, and "kiss" the length of it, while he ejaculates (probably into the air.) One more thing. Men love to know how good they taste, and pre-cum is actually very tasty.  While licking this, make a point with your tongue, and insert it into the hole into the head of his penis.
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Anonymous answered
It all depends on what he likes... You should try blind folding him make him lay on his stomach and start wit his ears and kiss them softly then his neck. Then have whip cream or pudding at hand (tha colder tha better) and wit out him knowing put some on his shoulder area, and take your time and lick an suck it off (use a LITTLE bit of your teeth) he will love it if you do it right. Then put some on tha small of his back and kiss his back all tha way to his neck. Then to make him beg you too stop you put it on his side and use your tongue wit a lot of pressure. If you think he's not ticklish wait till you try doin that. And when your done tell him to turn over on his back. And if you did it right he'll be hard already. Now do tha same thing on tha front side and use a lil bit on his d$ck he'll love it because it'll be cold. You can try using ice too. Suck on a piece of ice first then suck him nasty. If you need more details let me know.
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Anonymous answered
Men love head and there neck, nipples, & ears sucked. Plus a woman being on top gets them off more by them seeing your enjoying being on top.
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What you can do is slowly lick and suck the inner part of his thighs until you reach the balls area. Gently suck on his balls all slowly work your way down to his anal area and just lick the anal area while jerking him off. And you will definately have him rolling his eyes back in pleasure. This is one of my favorite things to do.
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Lick his nipples;
lick and suck his earlobes
a great lick and suck before, but not so he comes...
new positions;check them out;some good ones;
lick and suck his balls both at the same time in your mouth and then use your tongue to lick them..
toys?
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Anonymous answered
Have you read the book... "203 ways to drive a man wild in bed"... By Olivia St. Claire? There is some FABULOUS stuff in there. I love surprising my boyfriend with some her ideas... And then mixing in some of my own stuff... The possibilities are endless.

Also what works... ASK HIM! And be willing to do whatever it takes to get him off. Hopefully he'll return the favor. Good luck. (:
Todd Hubbard Profile
Todd Hubbard answered
Wear a crazy sexy outfit and dance sexually will make him go crazy, don't let him finish early, make him suffer and wait and watch you.
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laine jackson answered
Push out the girls, haha men like confident girls so BE confident. Act like the hottest thing in the world. Show him how lucky he is to be with you.
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Anonymous answered
The biggest thing is for you to enjoy it because if you r not excited, he wont be either.... Show him just how much you love to see him tremble...
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I have a new man in my life and want to please him what type of games can we play before we make love need some tips
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jaffer imran answered
You need to find his tastes first. You need to do what he likes and avoid what he dosen't. Rub him with your nude boobs. Bite him on chest....there are so many thing that makes a man crazy....
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Michael Lai answered
Half of the pleasure a man gets from the experience is psychological, and the other half is obviously physical. I would suggest that you can't get the second part without the first, so it is important to find out what gets him into the 'mood'. Also, you need to do more communication and learn more about each other's likes and dislikes (not necessarily by asking, but by feeling and experimenting). There is no secret formula, and every couple is different, so the best way to know is to try it and find out.
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Just let him to be good with you...In that way, him will be too.... Just don't let him to do everything and don't just lay there like a dead fish.... Do something for your self and him!!!
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Well I suggest that you try to play hard to get and try to look at some sexy sex positions like the rear entry, ever since I did me and my man have been having sex once or more a day!
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Anonymous answered
The best way to drive you man wild is to be really turned on yourself. If you love sex and really enjoy and show it, men love that. You read whatever turns you on and think whatever fantacies that you need to get you really hot but let him think you are hot, hot hot for him.
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I noe that beein real turn on that turn him on more.. But im not easy to turn on even thoo i love makin love to him somtimes i feel that im not at the max where i want and where he want me to be...
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I think a good way to drive a man wild is put in a sexy short low cut dress and sexy panties or thong or no pantie and give him a good show
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Lena JH answered
You have to know his fantasies...act some out with your own little touch on it...it should work.
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Anonymous answered
I'd give him head. Always seems to make a man happy. Oh and do a bit of dirty talk.
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Holly Ellul answered
I  think you shold do what makes you feel good aout your self
make sure you really horny both of you but say I will make you cum with out aveing sex with you and do what you think you sholud do trust me if you really truned on it will just come to you trust me xxx
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Anonymous answered
Tickle your husband when it is very dark and almost asleep that will really aggravate a man
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Holly Ellul answered
Make sure your truned on your self and if you in love and both are ready to make love it will just come to you you may end up haveing sex but you wil not reget it in the end trust me xxxx
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There are a lot of ways to please your man. I have been in a relationship for 12 yrs. And we still have an awesome sex life. I just got this guide. I found it useful. Simply put to keep a happy relationship going, you have to have a healthy sex life too.

Alan Profile
Alan answered
Would that be crazy in the sexual stimulation way, or in the mental torture way?
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Anonymous answered
You don't need intercourse too satisfy but by there being no option for it makes for cock/block
sasha slater Profile
sasha slater answered
Get some wiped cream and chains and put a lever suit on and hand cuff him to the bed, it drives my man wiled.
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CJ Dishman answered
Well here is a suggestion if your man wants to have intercourse then I wouldn't do it. That way he will wonder if you r mad at him and he will go nuts if you don't give him intercourse.
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Anonymous answered
People are either born able to do that or not, its a trait and a skill that can't be taught it seems.
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Yeah, eat biscuits in bed and when he comes to bed he will toss and turn for hours trying to sleep among the crumbs. My wife does that all the time and it drives me crazy. As for the sexual side of things, mind your own business. Ha ha
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Anonymous answered
Whip him and tell whip child to sleep with you that nite and ask to bake a cake!!!! It works every time!

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