You need to be careful with this. Being too pushy isn't good at the beginning of a relationship. Even in adult relationships being pushy can be a problem, so as a young people you really do need to take this on board. First of all, you need to think about your relationship. Is this really a worthwhile relationship? Do you really have feelings for one another? Do you see each other enough? Is the relationship working? If these are all positive and you are of course of legal age, only then should you be considering progressing your relationship to this kind of level.
When you have been together for a substantial amount of time and you have grown to trust each other, only then should you be talking about things like sex. You should talk to your girlfriend about how you are feeling and about how you are ready to start exploring. Of course, your relationship can only progress if your girlfriend tells you that she feels the same and she actually wants the relationship to progress like that. If you are of age then this conversation is perfectly normal and you can soon act on it legally and comfortably.
If, however, your girlfriend does not feel comfortable with it then it is her right to not act upon your urges. She has the same rights that you do and just because you are in a relationship does not mean you can do whatever you want. For the sake of your girlfriend and of course to be acting within the law you should not try and force anything upon the girl that you supposedly care for. You need to consider her feelings at all times and only ever act upon your urges if you are both agreed and you both want to take steps to take the relationship to the next level.
When you have been together for a substantial amount of time and you have grown to trust each other, only then should you be talking about things like sex. You should talk to your girlfriend about how you are feeling and about how you are ready to start exploring. Of course, your relationship can only progress if your girlfriend tells you that she feels the same and she actually wants the relationship to progress like that. If you are of age then this conversation is perfectly normal and you can soon act on it legally and comfortably.
If, however, your girlfriend does not feel comfortable with it then it is her right to not act upon your urges. She has the same rights that you do and just because you are in a relationship does not mean you can do whatever you want. For the sake of your girlfriend and of course to be acting within the law you should not try and force anything upon the girl that you supposedly care for. You need to consider her feelings at all times and only ever act upon your urges if you are both agreed and you both want to take steps to take the relationship to the next level.
