Well you could do this thing called "going out." LOL I'm just kidding. Well to start you could go clubbing, or to a bookstore, or meet people in your community. Either way, if your out and proud you should have nothing to worry about other than not trying. Unless you were refering to pedophiling someone, then I can't help you on that one, but I'm going to asume your a man in need of help and not some creepy old guy. =)