Anonymous, I am so sorry you have been hurt. It's not easy when hearts are involved sometimes. Please don't lump everyone into this one particular situation. Take care of your wounds. Heal. Pick up the pieces and move on to bigger and better things. I have a saying which hopefully will be helpful to you when you are healed and ready to try giving your heart again... "No one knows what tomorrow holds, so if you can be happy today... Then be happy." In other words the next person may be the one who cherishes your heart. ☺ Good luck.