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Should I attend an event that my former crush (who's married now) is a part of, that requires me to travel to another city faraway? She might feel as if I'm stalking her, in case she notices me. But, this is a rare opportunity to see her at least.

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Walt O'Reagun Profile
Walt O'Reagun answered

Unless it was an event you were invited to ... For some purpose other than seeing her ... Then NO!

Get over it.
She is married.
Stop asking for trouble and drama.

Yin And Yang Profile
Yin And Yang answered

Keep your butt where you live now. Do not go to this event. Go to your OWN event. Take in a movie. Visit a friend. Have dinner with a colleague! Go on a blind date with someone who is NOT taken! Save yourself some embarrassment and heartache! MOVE ON!!! She was just a crush for goodness sake!

Tom  Jackson Profile
Tom Jackson answered

If you have a separate valid reason for attending beyond the opportunity to "see" her, it's up to you.

But whether you go or not, you need to somehow "get over" your active feelings for that woman.

Danae Hitch Profile
Danae Hitch answered

I find your question interesting and a little freaky that you would ask this. Does she need to fear you stalking her - have you done this in the past - that's why you felt compelled to ask?

I would never in a million years think that someone that I used to like would think I would be stalking them if I were to travel where they were also going. So if you have exhibited this type of creepy behavior before with her, you might want to re-think this trip.

If you have done nothing to cause her to fear your presence, except to admire her silently from afar, then you're good to go.

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