So this guy thinks I'm stalking him even though the only thing I'm doing is carpooling with him. I've only had one longish coversation with him and haven't even looked at his social media. What's his deal?

Danae Hitch answered

As always, should you have a question about someone's behavior or something that they've said, you really should talk to them about it. You should ask him why he feels you are stalking him. If you feel his concern is legitimate, you should ask him what would make him feel more comfortable around you. If this is his way to not carpool with him, I would take the hint.

Tom Jackson answered

Maybe he is actually stalking you and is just projecting his behavior on yours.

Perhaps you should ask him if he is actually stalking you and that's why he brought the subject up.

But try Danae Hitch's suggestion first.

Pepper pot answered

I would tell him the same way you've told us. "I'm not stalking you, I'm carpooling you, I've only had one conversation with you, what is your deal?" If he doesn't want to engage in conversation then the reason he is doing this is because he doesn't want contact with you.

So this guy thinks I'm stalking him even though the only thing I'm doing is carpooling with him. I've only had one longish coversation with him and haven't even looked at his social media. What's his deal?

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