I'm 15 from the UK and pregnant and I'm finding it hard to get a relationship, do boys find it hard to be in a relationship with a young mother? I hate being on my own as I'm the type of person who loves relationships.

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dragonfly forty-six Profile

Honestly, you might find it really difficult having a relationship right now. Most young men would not want to be in a relationship with someone carrying someone else's child.

How about making a bunch of new friends? Take the energy that a relationship would take and put it into yourself. Focus on school, your baby and your life. After the baby and when you are more settled in life, maybe one of those friends could be a potential relationship.

Good luck to you.

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PJ Stein answered

Young men generally do not want to be be with someone pregnant from someone else, and most aren't going to be thrilled with someone who has a baby either. My concern here is how you don't want to be on your own for at least little while. It makes you appear desperate and insecure. You need to take this time and really think about your life and the choices you are making.

I realize you have think you have it all figured out with your family and friends helping you, but that is just the logistics of your life and not your emotions. You take the time before the baby is born and look into yourself for what you think you need out of a relationship. No relationship is going to give you happiness until you find that happiness with yourself first.

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