HELP! So I have 2 girlfriends by accident. I was going out with this girl and then another one bopped up. I don't know what to do. I want to go out with both but I can't because it will be selfish and hurt the girls and I don't want that, what do I do?

Sorry, but I'm not buying the story that you have girlfriends "by accident".

Break up with both of them. If you want to date, then just date. If you want to have a girlfriend, discover the word "monogamous". It will help you tremendously.

I dated a guy in college, who would eventually become my husband. He let me know from the start that I was not the only girl he was dating. So, I had a decision to make. He was honest with me - he was in college and he wanted to date and not have a girlfriend. He had this conversation with every girl he dated. I chose to continue to date him.

Nice try .. But, 'bopped up' is not an excuse .. THIS was no accident ... Clearly .. You made a conscious decision to offer your affections to the 2nd girl .. THAT is no way in any shape or form an 'accident'. If you have 'commited' (and  use that term loosely) to your 1st girlfriend, and have entered into a monogomous relationship, then you could potentially be in BIG trouble by deceiving her).

Even if you were co-ersed or forced to 'date' her because she threatened to kill herself is not an accident.  Even being black mailed into having a relationship is not an accident. THIS situation is FAR more serious than that.

THIS 2nd girl is obviously deeply troubled and you are dealing with a VERY volitile situation .. Clearly one you are illequipped to handle.  Her parents should be made aware that she is this seriously troubled as to threaten suicide if you don't date her .. This girl needs some serious help.

I don't see a problem ... As long as everyone is aware of it, it's okay to date multiple people.

In fact - that should be (and used to be) the norm.  Since the point of dating is to get to know multiple types of people, so you can make an informed decision of what type you want to spend the rest of your life with.

You will have no girlfriend. Within a week