I am with someone and now a second girl has messaged me saying she wants to go out with me. What do I do? I'm not a cruel person, I don't really want to upset anyone.


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Nice Girl Profile
Nice Girl answered

What does your heart tell ya to do?

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lover boy
lover boy commented
Well I don't know cos this new girls only paying attention to me cos I'm with someone she gave me a sad face when she found out
Nice Girl
Nice Girl commented
Okay so just walk to her and tell her very politely that your already with someone and can't be with her so she may pls forget you! Say very politely coz maybe it can work!
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Lia Tan answered

I've had this happen to me (where I was the girl who liked a guy who's going out with someone else) and the best thing was that he told me straight up that he was going out with someone else. He also said it nicely too, along the lines of "You are a good person and I admire/respect you. But I'm sorry, I'm currently in a relationship with someone else right now and I want to see how things work out with her." That was it. 

And after that he didn't avoid me or anything like that but he was more careful with what he said to me (although after he rejected me I didn't really care anymore although I still appreciated that he was so nice about it). Maybe you could try taking that approach?

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jeany leon answered

Go with him. Don't break her heart.

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