I like this guy, but he just moved 2000 miles away....and I found out he likes me too. What do I do?

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Rooster Cogburn , Rooster Cogburn, answered

Well, since you both started just liking each other, you can use the phone, Skype or e-mail to stay in contact with him. But since you're young and I'm sure your parents aren't going to let you fly out to see him, I think it would be best to just find someone else in your local area. It's a shame he had to move but that's life and there will be many more boys as time rolls on.

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Rooster Cogburn
Rooster Cogburn commented
Long distance relationships can be very hard on you. This I know from experience. Keep looking and that right guy will suddenly show up! You'll see.
John O'Gaunt
John O'Gaunt commented
Spot on...
Theodore Putnam
Theodore Putnam commented
I half agree with hippy. You should forget about developing a relatipnship, but DEFINITELY stay in contact with him whether by email skype or otherwise. You can still be best friends. And come to think, one of you can save up for a while and fly to the other. Dating partners need to see each other frequently, but best friends less frequently. Best of luck!:)
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John O'Gaunt , Old guy., answered

Relationships like this can cloud your life for years.

Just be friends. Don't have a romantic attachment. Keep looking.

If it was a more mature relationship, then maybe there would be a good reason for staying close, but, a just starting out relationship? As hard as it will be, I advise you to cool it.

Cookie Roma Profile
Cookie Roma answered

Move on

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Musical Wolf
Musical Wolf commented
Him, his sister and the rest of his family have been a part of my life since before I can even remember. I can't just move on
Cookie Roma
Cookie Roma commented
Of course you can. Perhaps you don't want to, but you certainly can.
Theodore Putnam
Theodore Putnam commented
I agree. A mature woman can do anything if she sets her mind to it. Even though im a boy, i speak from experience. You can move on from a relationship, but always stay friends. He will help guide you through this tough experience, and follow his advice because he is going through it too! Best wishes my friend! :)
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Shinypate one answered

2000 miles are about 1900 miles too many to be able to do anything more than an online relationship (which is not a real relationship). I think you would be better served by dating someone who is not geographically challenged and who is able to take you out.

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Lil Princess answered

There is always a long distance relationship. They are rough but can work. I know from experience.

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