Should my boyfriend and I take a break? We've been dating for over a year recently it seems all he wants is to move up in bases that he knows I'm not ready for and even though we still love each other I find myself falling for other people

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Danae Hitch answered

If he wants to be more sexually active than what is happening right now, and talking about it doesn't help, then yes.

Because of your dissatisfaction, you are now looking at other guys, perhaps thinking that it could be different with someone else.

When you are in a relationship with someone else, your goals need to be similar or you end up fighting for what you want. I would not want to spend my time fighting with someone. It's really not pleasant.

So if you two cannot get on the same page sexually and he keeps pushing your boundaries, then yes, the best thing would be to break up.

Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

Most definitely and by what you've written, it sounds like you just aren't all that much into him anymore but this needs more than just a simple break here. It needs to be over with no contact and looking back. Your BF wants one thing which you aren't ready to give and that's awesome in my book, so instead of what you want here and that's not good so time to break it off clean and move on and maybe who knows what could happen in the future.

Cut your losses and good luck

Should my boyfriend and I take a break? We've been dating for over a year recently it seems all he wants is to move up in bases that he knows I'm not ready for and even though we still love each other I find myself falling for other people

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