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I liked a guy for a year and he confessed that he liked me. We agreed not to date yet; we didn't think we were ready for it. He moved schools. Suddenly I find that he has a girlfriend. He never told me. How do I ask him about it?

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Jaimie  JT Profile
Jaimie JT answered

You don't ....you already know he has a girlfriend , move on then... Cos I said so :)

Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

He lies .. Obviously .. So how can you trust anything he tells you ? 

Considering you already know he has a girlfriend ... No need to contact him about anything .. He's off limits .. Period 

Cookie Roma Profile
Cookie Roma answered

No reason to ask him about anything.  You know everything you need to know.

Darik Majoren Profile
Darik Majoren answered

So, here's your Question:

"I liked a guy for a year and he confessed that he liked me. We agreed not to date yet; we didn't think we were ready for it. He moved schools. Suddenly I find that he has a girlfriend. He never told me. How do I ask him about it? "

And Here's what you say to him:

I liked you and confessed that you liked me. We agreed not to date yet because,  we didn't think we were ready for it. After you moved to a different school . . . I find that you have a girlfriend. you never told me. What about us??

I took the liberty of "recycling" the question (Underlined) into the conversation . . .

Feel free to use at your leisure . . .

If you are going to be "Ready to Date", you need to be ready to "Communicate" . . .

Tom  Jackson Profile
Tom Jackson answered

You and he obviously had different expectations about your possible future relationship.

Quite understandable.

If you want to follow up, you can---just contact him and chat about you and him and see what he says.

With additional information, you can decide how to proceed if you still want to.

 

Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

You really don't unless you want to look like some lve-lost puppy dog here.  It looks like he really was never all that much into you  and only told you what he thought you wanted to hear from him.  So cut your losses and move on and find a real BF that is truly interested in you and not with words either and let this other guy see what he just lost.  Sorry, and good luck

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