First I'd like to ask how old are you and if you can give more info then how old is your divorced stepmom?? This way I can tell you easily what she really intends!
My divorced step mom wants me. She asks me to come and spend the night. And she is always dressed in nylon when I'm there. I do not know what to do. I get tempted like hell .. please advise?
This is a bit of a difficult one. What might seem okay on the face of it might not really be right morally. So what should you do if your divorced step mom wants you?
- If you're over 16, technically there are no laws being broken if you do stay the night. It might still be a little odd, but that's the law. If you're over 18 then there really isn't anything in the law to say that you can't sleep with your divorced step mom.
- But what would your parent say? I'm assuming that your step mom was once married to your dad. What would he think if you slept with his ex-wife? I'm thinking he might be pretty upset, whether he broke off the marriage or not. I'm sure you love your dad, so you might want to put yourself in his shoes and think about how he might feel.
So there's a couple of things to think about. If you don't want to be tempted, it might be worth deleting her number and any other forms of contact with her so that she can't lure you in. Good luck whatever you decide!
You might want to take a look at this video on how to get over someone. It might help you if you don't want to pursue things with your step mom: