Wow he sounds like a serious jerk! What did you do to put him off?
Whatever it was, you have every right to be hurt and very angry. If I was you, I would refuse to have sex with him again until he apologises.
Sex can be messy and unpredictable... Maybe he's been watching so much porn that he thinks every time should be the same as it is between two (or more) paid actors performing in front of an entire production crew.
What he's done is prove that he cares more about "finishing off" then he does about actually having a good time with you. I don't know about you, but I wouldn't waste my time with someone like that. Ever.