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If someone could give you a guaranteed answer on how to attract, pick up and keep a love interest they'd probably want to save that information for a very profitable relationship advice book.
The truth is that there is no fail-safe way to go about finding the ideal partner, but there are certainly things you might want to keep in mind when you're on the look out.
For more info, keep reading!
How to attract someone
This will really depend on whether you're talking about a man or a woman, what they're in to, and what they're looking for in a relationship.
Qualities that most people are looking for include:
Keeping a lover
Once you're in a relationship, the hard work has only just begun. There's a significant amount of advice out there about how to keep a relationship going, but on the other hand there are a significant number of people breaking up and getting divorced every day too. This would suggest that there is no real answer.
My suggestions would be to play everything one step at a time. Enjoy the time you spend with your lover, do your best to please them, and if it wasn't meant to be there's probably very little you could have done about it.
Stick to the following and no-one can say you didn't try:
The truth is that there is no fail-safe way to go about finding the ideal partner, but there are certainly things you might want to keep in mind when you're on the look out.
For more info, keep reading!
How to attract someone
This will really depend on whether you're talking about a man or a woman, what they're in to, and what they're looking for in a relationship.
Qualities that most people are looking for include:
- Fun and humour: Everyone wants to be with someone that knows how to have a good time.
- Standing out: Being different from 'all the rest' might help you in your advances. Appearing to offer something that no-one else would be able to is very attractive (and no small feat either).
- Confidence and charisma: Often it's not what you say, but how you say it. If you've got a cool and calm swagger about you, you're likely to go far.
Keeping a lover
Once you're in a relationship, the hard work has only just begun. There's a significant amount of advice out there about how to keep a relationship going, but on the other hand there are a significant number of people breaking up and getting divorced every day too. This would suggest that there is no real answer.
My suggestions would be to play everything one step at a time. Enjoy the time you spend with your lover, do your best to please them, and if it wasn't meant to be there's probably very little you could have done about it.
Stick to the following and no-one can say you didn't try:
- Be sensitive and caring
- Be positive, spontaneous, and exciting
- Be loyal and respectful
