Flirting: How To Attract, Pick Up And Keep A Lover?


4 Answers

Yo Kass Profile
Yo Kass answered
If someone could give you a guaranteed answer on how to attract, pick up and keep a love interest they'd probably want to save that information for a very profitable relationship advice book.

The truth is that there is no fail-safe way to go about finding the ideal partner, but there are certainly things you might want to keep in mind when you're on the look out.

For more info, keep reading!

How to attract someone

This will really depend on whether you're talking about a man or a woman, what they're in to, and what they're looking for in a relationship.

Qualities that most people are looking for include:
  • Fun and humour: Everyone wants to be with someone that knows how to have a good time.
  • Standing out: Being different from 'all the rest' might help you in your advances. Appearing to offer something that no-one else would be able to is very attractive (and no small feat either).
  • Confidence and charisma: Often it's not what you say, but how you say it. If you've got a cool and calm swagger about you, you're likely to go far.
How to pick someone up To 'pick someone up' means different things to different people. I'd recommend not using the expression 'picking up' as it implies the act being casual and motivated primarily by sex. If this is the case, you probably won't be interested in the next part.

Keeping a lover

Once you're in a relationship, the hard work has only just begun. There's a significant amount of advice out there about how to keep a relationship going, but on the other hand there are a significant number of people breaking up and getting divorced every day too. This would suggest that there is no real answer.

My suggestions would be to play everything one step at a time. Enjoy the time you spend with your lover, do your best to please them, and if it wasn't meant to be there's probably very little you could have done about it.

Stick to the following and no-one can say you didn't try:
  • Be sensitive and caring
  • Be positive, spontaneous, and exciting
  • Be loyal and respectful
catherine adams Profile
catherine adams answered
Well, be careful what you pick up, you may get more than you bargained for.... Make sure you are in a safe place, and be sure to check it all out, for sometimes people are not what they seem.

We live in an age where we have to be careful. So hang out with friends and - as for strangers, meet them in places you all go to, places that are safe. Good Luck!
Tony Newcastle Profile
Tony Newcastle answered
Just smear your whole body in honey and raspberry jam.
At least you will endear yourself to hundreds of wasps and hornets!
Maxine Chan Profile
Maxine Chan answered
Smile with your warm eyes and kiss him gently. Compliment him always.

Answer Question