It can be an awful feeling and then not too. It depends on the way you take it.It would hurt anyone to not know about one's biological father.If they can't find a way to find him then this thought might keep haunting them for a long time.A situation like this is not a pleasant one to be in.
I am assuming that either you or someone you know are going through this dilemma. From your question, I am also assuming that your friend has been brought up by parents who adopted him/her. Come to think of it that person owes more to his/her Adoptive Parents.
If that person keeps on thinking about his/her biological father and never gets a chance to see him, he might start reacting differently to his adoptive parents.
What you could do in such a situation is help that person out by being there for him/her. You have to let them know that you will help them out in anyway you can but that its very important for them to love his/her adoptive father unconditionally like he/she has and not change the way they are with them.A person in such a dilemma needs people to be there for him/her and guide them through.
I am assuming that either you or someone you know are going through this dilemma. From your question, I am also assuming that your friend has been brought up by parents who adopted him/her. Come to think of it that person owes more to his/her Adoptive Parents.
If that person keeps on thinking about his/her biological father and never gets a chance to see him, he might start reacting differently to his adoptive parents.
What you could do in such a situation is help that person out by being there for him/her. You have to let them know that you will help them out in anyway you can but that its very important for them to love his/her adoptive father unconditionally like he/she has and not change the way they are with them.A person in such a dilemma needs people to be there for him/her and guide them through.
