Oral sex is a form of sex. Well I am of the belief that sex is for marriage and that would include any sensual or sex-like act. It's all tied together. When you engage in any activity that is of a sexual nature with someone, you are now tied to them emotionally, physically and spiritually. It is hard to break from that. There are so many emotions involved with sex as well. Sex is a beautiful thing and has to be taken seriously. Sex is not something that should be treated casually.
If you've reached the point of having oral sex, you are only one step away from having sex with that person. If you're not ready for that but you're both caught up in it, he may not listen to you when you say no. The sex drive at that time is very strong. There are also possibilities that you could get pregnant if things go further than what you thought, which is very possible.
If your partner has been sexually active he may have a sexually transmitted disease and that can be passed through oral sex, especially if there are cuts or bruises in the lips or genital organs. Life isn't perfect but you deserve better than a little fun on the side risking your health and emotional wellness. You deserve someone who is going to love you through the whole sexual process. Hopefully that will be your husband. Sex is a precious gift from God. Remember that. You are precious too.... because God made you.
Take care.
If you've reached the point of having oral sex, you are only one step away from having sex with that person. If you're not ready for that but you're both caught up in it, he may not listen to you when you say no. The sex drive at that time is very strong. There are also possibilities that you could get pregnant if things go further than what you thought, which is very possible.
If your partner has been sexually active he may have a sexually transmitted disease and that can be passed through oral sex, especially if there are cuts or bruises in the lips or genital organs. Life isn't perfect but you deserve better than a little fun on the side risking your health and emotional wellness. You deserve someone who is going to love you through the whole sexual process. Hopefully that will be your husband. Sex is a precious gift from God. Remember that. You are precious too.... because God made you.
Take care.