Oscar De La Huerte answered
Being sixty and not having had sex yet is by no means the norm, however it doesn't necessarily mean there's anything wrong with you either. The most important thing, when it comes to your sexuality, is that you are happy with who you are.
No sex in sixty years
I can't really speculate as to why you've decided to go six decades without having had sex, but I can tell you that if you're happy with the way things are, you shouldn't really pay much attention to what anyone else says.
Some people, by their very nature, are not very sexually driven.
Whilst they may only represent a small percentage of the population, there are people out there just like you, who don't really see what all the fuss about sex is.
Some of them may have even tried having sex a few times and found that it wasn't for them - every case is unique.
How to have sex at sixty
The only reason to be concerned about a lack of sex is if you're interested in having some!
If you are in the situation where you've been looking for some 'action' and just haven't found the right time or person (in the past sixty years) then there are a number of things you can do to remedy the situation.
Firstly, I'd suggest looking at the reasons why you haven't had sex up till now. Many people will relate to one of the following factors when it comes to celibacy:
No sex in sixty years
I can't really speculate as to why you've decided to go six decades without having had sex, but I can tell you that if you're happy with the way things are, you shouldn't really pay much attention to what anyone else says.
Some people, by their very nature, are not very sexually driven.
Whilst they may only represent a small percentage of the population, there are people out there just like you, who don't really see what all the fuss about sex is.
Some of them may have even tried having sex a few times and found that it wasn't for them - every case is unique.
How to have sex at sixty
The only reason to be concerned about a lack of sex is if you're interested in having some!
If you are in the situation where you've been looking for some 'action' and just haven't found the right time or person (in the past sixty years) then there are a number of things you can do to remedy the situation.
Firstly, I'd suggest looking at the reasons why you haven't had sex up till now. Many people will relate to one of the following factors when it comes to celibacy:
- Not finding the right person
- Not having a sex drive
- Too shy to have sex with someone
- Social, ethical or religious pressure against sex
- Negative experiences of sex in the past
If you feel one of the above factors is holding you back from having sex, then I'd suggest you explore the issue with the help of an expert in the relevant field. For example, trouble finding the right person to have intercourse with can be solved with the help of a dating expert or match-making website. On the other hand, a negative sexual experience in your past may need the guidance of a psychologist to overcome.
Whatever the reason behind your celibacy, try and remember that having sex is a natural function of the human body, and it is entirely healthy to want to explore that aspect of your nature - whatever your age.
Whatever the reason behind your celibacy, try and remember that having sex is a natural function of the human body, and it is entirely healthy to want to explore that aspect of your nature - whatever your age.
