If A Girl Hugs You Does It Mean She Loves You?

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Meg Hayes answered
If a girl hugs you, it is a sign of intimacy, affection, and that she is comfortable around you. However, it does not necessarily mean that she loves you.

Girls are, by nature, very comforting and caring. This is in part due to the social views in the western world that women should be motherly figures, and with this comes the role of females as kindly and reassuring figures. If you have told a girl your problems, or have shown her that you are upset for some reason, she may have hugged you as a way of comforting you, to help you feel better. While this shows her concern for your wellbeing and happiness, chances are that it doesn't mean that she loves you.

Girls are also favor physical contact more than boys do. While groups of boys see touching as "girly" or "gay", girls are much more likely to touch, hug and kiss their friends in a non-sexual way. This is simply a display of affection which is accepted practice amongst girls, and means nothing more than "I value you as a friend, you are someone I can trust, and I feel comfortable around you." When girls interact this way with boys, it can often be confusing for the males, and lead them to believe that the girl is interested in them in a sexual way. In fact, quite often the girl is simply acting in a way that she feels demonstrates her harmless friendship.

It could be that the girl who has hugged you was flirting with you. Body contact between two people is a sign of intimacy, whether it signifies friendship or romantic love. Was she also touching your arm, complimenting you, and holding your gaze for a little longer than usual? If so, chances are that she was flirting with you. While this does not necessarily mean that she loves you, it could be a sign that she is interested in having a relationship with you. If you are confused over the signals the girl is giving you, the best thing to do is ask her about it. Nearly every girl will have a guy ask her about her feelings for him, so don't be afraid of clearing things up.
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Anonymous answered
Not necessarily in the romantic sense. She could just like you as a friend. But a hug means she feels comfortable enough around you to be close to you, at least for a while, so she at least cares about you.
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Anonymous answered
Hugs are a gesture of acceptance, not necessarily love. When people hug each other they are expressing a show of friendliness and appreciation. If you want to know if she loves you - you should ask her. It will give her the opportunity to verbally say she does or doesn't.
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It depends. If she hugged you for 10 seconds or under, she probably just thinks your a good friend or is saying hi. 10-15 seconds is a thank you. 15-20 is a showing she wants to be more than friends.Over 20 is an I love you hug. My girlfriend told me all about that stuff. She did the samething.
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Johnny D answered
It could but I doubt it..  Girls hug all the time.  Even when saying hello to a friend
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It kinda depends on the mood and the type of relationship I know if I'm sad or scared id some times hug my guy friends or if I just won a cheer competition but if its just out of the blue and she is acting like a awesome friend she may be trying to flirt with you and cover it up I know ive done that 2 if you can't tell try passing notes asking her it will take the pressure off going right at front and shell reply truth Fully I'm 13 and thats what I did and it worked out hope you get the same reaction as me
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Lizz Smith answered
No... It doesn't mean that she loves you. Although it depends if she hugs you like fully and puts her hand on your neck it gives a sign that she is kind of into you... Although that's not always true.
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Anonymous answered
No not really just a friend thing or she could have a good crush on you
if she keeps on hugging you that is or pretends to act like she doesn't care after the hug
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Anonymous answered
It does not necessarily mean she loves you. It may be a hug of friendship or sometimes just a simple hi, how are you? Do not mix the emotions of a hug with love, they mean two completely different things.
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NOT AN ANSWER ok this girl I just started talking to literally just a week of talking on texting and when I first met her she hugged me and put her head on my shoulder. Does that mean she loves me? Please answer soon!
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She probably loves you as a friend and it is possible she has a crush on you... I use to hug all my guy friends daily at school some of them I liked just as friends some of them I had a crush on but never said anything... Ask her how she feels for you... If she likes you see where it goes and if not you still have a really good friend...
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This Is Not An Answer...What If She Hugs From Behind At School During Lunch When Your Sitting Down And She Continues To Hug You For About 1:30-2:00 Minutes
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You're asking me well I was hugged buy this girl in the mall the other day and she has a boyfriend but shes been saying I love you

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