when you love someone and he loves you too but u're not in a relationship then one day he or she said to you that she or he loves someone else and loves you too in the same time WHAT WOULD YOU DO ????

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Walt O'Reagun Profile
Walt O'Reagun answered

I'd question whether it's really "love" ... Or just "attraction".

Love actually requires time and effort and maintaining a relationship.

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Basma RM
Basma RM commented
sadly it's a true love
Mahakali Jyotish
Mahakali Jyotish commented
One person can't be in two relationships at the same time. He/ she can be devoted to an individual, so you should ask him/ her to pick you or the other person. In case, he/ she still emphasize on being with two people, leave him/ her. If you can't forget him/her, reach a vashikaran specialist. Here are the details -
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Janis Haskell Profile
Janis Haskell answered

I'd make the decision easier for him and tell him to take a hike.

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Janis Haskell
Janis Haskell commented
It isn't easy, but I doubt you really want to be "the other girl". Try to gather your courage and dignity, shed your tears, and then move on. It's the only way you will ever have a chance to be "the one" for a worthy person you haven't met yet.
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
Yep! Star Janis!!!! ☺
Basma RM
Basma RM commented
yes i think you all right thank you
Tom  Jackson Profile
Tom Jackson answered

This is a normal situation if you are about 14 years old. 

It's hard at a young age for us humans to distinguish between love as a neurotransmitter storm that we react to vs an act that we actively choose to perform with another person as the beneficiary.

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Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
Can you focus on a career or college instead of this particular relationship? Sometimes removing yourself out of the situation helps you to see the situation how it really is....
Tom  Jackson
Tom Jackson commented
Good suggestion, Yin. Unfortunately, at any age, when one is faced with a significant but seemingly unsolvable personal situation, motivation to do any of the world's work is usually absent.
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
Good point Tom. Your right. 😔
Yin And Yang Profile
Yin And Yang answered

He does NOT love you OR her! He is thinking with his tiny head! You deserve someone who will treat you like their number one AND only one! Get rid of this selfish loser! YOU ARE a gem who deserves to be treasured!

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Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
If this is your mindset.... then may i suggest (and im being serious here) professional help. You sound very dependant upon another, have self esteem issues, see your only self worth in another, a bit obsessive, just to mane a few off the top of my head. And I am NO professional! It's just what I observe by your answers and comments to us.
Basma RM
Basma RM commented
ooooh i can't change anything i'm confused but anyway thank you very much ^^<3
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
Your welcome. Good luck.
carlos Striker Profile
carlos Striker answered

Torn between two lovers? Screwed for actual life?

Coach Lee Profile
Coach Lee , Relationship Coach, answered

In this case, you have to give them enough space to decide. Obviously you don't want to be in a love triangle and they need to know that. Being clingy, jealous, etc., will only push them away. If the other person makes those mistakes, your odds are good of this person wanting to be with you instead.

Cher Lee Profile
Cher Lee answered

that someone doesn't love either of you

sometime people say "i love you" when they dont understand what is it or when it's not even love. I believe love in the first sight, but i just dont believe in most of the situations when i think the expressions are way to easy or casual or not from a sincere place. Sometimes a person only say this because he or she has a certain purpose not because love.

you just need to be careful and dont fall for a simple trick way too easy. 

let's just say, if he or she loves you, you would know

it's hard to admit it's love when you are already questioning about what would you do, because if he or she really loves you, you won't have such worries. They would bring the answer to you.

Eshmaal Fatin Profile
Eshmaal Fatin , Its not Love., answered

Love happens once in life.

Love need no relationship. Even you are far apart still love will be there.
Taila Nevado Profile
Taila Nevado answered

Well, first of all, you are not in a relationship and that
itself is very telling. If you both loved each other truly, you would have been
together, or at least there would not have been another one. Stop hurting
yourself. He should sort out his feelings and man up. Try focusing on a career
or something else. Divert your mind. You are still very young.

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