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i NEED relationship advice...... my boyfriend is talking to another girl, i cant tell what there relationship is like but my gut tells me its something terrible.. what do i do???

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Joyce Hall answered

Simply tell him, u don't like seeing them together. Even if they r 'just friend's

Its ultimatum time. U or her. If he chooses her, go shake her hand and thank her for showing u what a low life scum he is. ( this will irritate the both of them- although they will,never admit it. But you'll know.

P.S. I believe u, that there is something going on too!

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Yin And Yang answered

I hate to say it but guts are usually correct. ๐Ÿ˜”

Now the thing you have to figure out is this... Is it your GUT telling you or is it FEAR talking to you? There is a very fine line between the two and sometimes they can feel like they cross into each other. Don't answer right away... Seriously think about it first.

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shenan igans commented
i guess i am afraid to lose him. it could be the fear or a gut feeling. i will really think about this and thank you so much for putting it into this perspective !
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
You are welcome my friend. โ˜บ
Relationships are work. Sometimes we like the work, other times it's more difficult. My theory is why complicate it more then it has to be? If it was someone else who caused you to have distrust in men and he hasn't caused you to mistrust him then why make him suffer for someone else's "crime?" Lol! Also, no one knows what tomorrow holds so if you can be happy today, be happy today!!! ๐Ÿ˜Š
Now on the flip side... I would be leary of him and her having or (not having) a thing before you. I would hate to give you false hope or encourage you to stay if he really IS cheating. ๐Ÿ˜” Its a complicated situation you are in. Personally when my husband and I were dating, his best friend was female. She was his party buddy and I had no desire to party but I always felt safe if he went with her. Believe it or not, I actually felt BETTER him leaving with her because I knew with her around she would never let him cheat on me! ๐Ÿ˜… Serious though. She had so much respect for me, so much respect for me. Each situation and relationship is different. I respect echo and Joyce's answers because unfortunately most of the time, the situation is true. But I like to toss out odd ball stories as well. My husband and I have been together 22 years. Lots of growing pains but well worth it to me. ๐Ÿ˜†

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