Don't go!
I had an ex whom I loved the most but everytime we went out together, he never paid for the bills. Now we talk again and will meet soon for lunch. The thing is he ask me to pay for the lunch. What should I do?
That's pretty crappy that he has asked you to pay before you even go out. I think there's a message there.............he's your ex for a reason.
You deserve so much better Cupcake! Don't sell yourself short. A man, a REAL man would never ask you to pay for him let alone yourself. Please love yourself FIRST then you will see.
Bob, thanks for the invite to go to lunch tomorrow. I'm willing to go dutch. Are you willing to pay your way?
Well, no, Cupcake, I thought you would pay for my lunch as well.
Bob, I have noticed this trait of yours - never willing to pay your way. Are you this way with your other friends, or is it just me?
Hmmmm. Now that you brought it up, Cupcake, I only ask you to pay for my meals because you do it every time. I don't have to pay for anything.
Well, that explains a lot of things to me. I find that I am not free to be used any longer by you. Thanks for opening my eyes.
The End.
It's a pretty basic rule of our society ...
The person who invites, pays - or everybody pays their own bill.