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I'm in love with my teacher. We know everything about each other and are super close. I can't take my eyes off of him I would tell more about it but it's only 250 words on this thing. What do I do? Please help

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Ancient Hippy Profile
Ancient Hippy answered

You do nothing. If he got involved with you, his job and entire career are over.

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Ancient Hippy
Ancient Hippy commented
I don't know, but it always seems that way. LOL
Danae Hitch
Danae Hitch commented
You are looking at the world through rose colored glasses. They have plenty of flaws, however, in the professional world, they don't allow those to show. They get control over themselves and their image. Funny how that works out when you conduct yourself as an adult in the real world.
Why Who cares
Why Who cares commented
Ahhhhhhh..... I hope he can't tell that I have a crush on him...
Danae Hitch Profile
Danae Hitch answered

I am hoping that you haven't spent the last few years living under a rock......There has been story after story in the news about teachers being sent to JAIL for having an inappropriate relationship with a student.

Sit in your chair at school and stare at him all day long. Harbor a secret crush on him if you feel so inclined. However, don't put their job at risk because you have feelings on them and you feel the need to tell them.

News alert: He knows you have a crush on him - it's probably pretty obvious to him and everyone else watching you watching him.

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Why Who cares
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I'm not doing anything ringer him fired.... I don't want to just throw myself at him... I just have the biggest crush ever on him

If he knows why hasn't he said anything about it to me
Danae Hitch
Danae Hitch commented
What are you, ten years old? HE CAN'T SAY ANYTHING TO YOU AND HE'S NOT OBLIGATED TO RECIPROCATE ANY FEELINGS TOWARD YOU.

I think I'm done with this.
Why Who cares
Why Who cares commented
I'm not ten thank you.... Look I know he can't do anything... I just need a way to get over him... Get him out of my head.... A way to make my heart stop racing when I think of him or see him
Tom  Jackson Profile
Tom Jackson answered

Are you in high school or graduate school?

Zack -  Mr. GenXer Profile

Move on. No good can come of this, but I'm sure that you are going to do what you want to do. You've been warned.

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Why Who cares
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I tried to move on.. Bit I see him every day. My heart taxes at the thought or sight of him. I am in love with him and I can't help it. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!
Pepper pot Profile
Pepper pot answered

Many teenage girls and boys have crushes on teachers. Teachers will be aware of this, but please remember, to him you are a 14 year old child, he is a 34 year old man. I'm pretty sure you do not know everything about this man as you claim. This man (unless a paedophile), will not be attracted to a 14 year old school girl. You have a crush, crushes end when you develop another crush. This man may seem attractive to you because you can romanticise things, which is what 14 year old girls do. Crush on him, but if you cross the line with this teacher by making any inappropriate remarks he will put you straight,  and that could result in a lot of hurt and embarrassment for you. He enjoys his job, he likes teaching his students but when he goes home he gets on with his adult life. Enjoy your innocence, it is short-lived.

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Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
Pepper pot, don't waste your time or breath on her anymore. She obviously dont want help. Just tell her to "go for it." Thats what i am doing. Your heart is too good for this run around. ☺
Why Who cares
Why Who cares commented
Yeah listen to yin and yang cause obviously you don't get it
Pepper pot
Pepper pot commented
Thank you Yin, you are absolutely right, she has established herself as an attention seeker, she has clearly forgotten what she has lied about, the hallmark of every troll.
Merry Christmas to you and yours :)
Tris Fray Potter Profile

Firstly, that's really gross.  I want to help you, but all I can really tell you to do is to move on.  There's plenty of webpages on the internet for that can help you with moving on.

There's a 20 year difference between you two.  I am only 15, but even I know that when one of you are 14, that's a pretty big gap.  If you refuse to move on, at least wait until you are a little older and not his student anymore (like, 15 years at least).  I can't imagine crushing on any of my teachers, even the ones that I 'only' have a 8 year age gap with, let alone loving.  It's just wrong.

You'll probably 'grow out of it' during the Summer holidays, which are 3 months in the US???  That's a long time, and you only have to wait until June(?).

Crushes can feel like love, but they're not always love.  I highly doubt that you you know as much about your teacher as you think you do.  Some teachers tell their students personal information (how many kids, about their spouse), nothing too intimate, but enough to gain their trust, so you might be getting confused between him telling you what he had for lunch the other day and his deepest, darkest secrets.

Alternatively, you could ask to move out of the class, do Music or Visual Arts instead if you want to stick in the Arts department.  Then you wouldn't have to be so close to him everyday.

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Why Who cares
Why Who cares commented
I can't move classes.... And I can't talk to guidence cause then they will ask why then he will know then he will never treat me the same or look at me the same.... And im trying not to act on it tryst me.... I know what the consequences are
Tris Fray Potter
Tris Fray Potter commented
I don't know about Canada, but I know here that Guidance counselors are legally required to keep secret what you want them to unless you or someone else is in danger.
Why Who cares
Why Who cares commented
But what if they think it more then what it is and acuse that teacher for idk like melestation or something
Ally Gh Profile
Ally Gh answered

Super gross! That's all I need to tell. Leave the man alone. I used to teach at this private school. I was 23 at the time. I had this 14 year old girl in my class. Obviously, I was kind to her as I was to other students. She took my kindness as a sign that I like her back!!!!!! She made my life a living hell!!! Don't do the same to him

Yin And Yang Profile
Yin And Yang answered

It is time for you to transfer out of his class. You are wasting your time on him.

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Why Who cares
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I can't just transferre he's the only grade nine drama teacher here.... Plus I've already started my exama
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
You know, I have read your "wonderful" come backs to all these people who obviously know something you dont and i have come to this conclusion..... you dont really want help. You are just waiting till someone says go for it.
So go for it! There is nothing we can say to stop you and you know it. So go for it. Throw yourself at him. Tell him how much you love him. Tell him how you obsess over him everyday and dream of him every night. Then tell him you could care less if this lands him in jail and branded as a child molester or sex offender for the rest of his life cuz YOU can't take your eyes or mind off of him. It's what you want and that is all that matters to you.
So go for it. And if he is stupid enough to fall for you then he deserves what's waiting ahead of him anyways.
Why Who cares
Why Who cares commented
No... I don't want that to happen to him.... I can't do that to him
Michael Poland Profile
Michael Poland answered

8 out of 10 people believe they have lived before.

Perhaps in another life you were related.

Ever meet someone for the first time and feel,

that you have known them for ever?

Dolly Pardon wrote a song, " Here You Come Again"

Hold on to your Heart. " There is another".

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