A girl I've known for almost 2 years told me she wants to get closer to me, friendship wise. I think she said that just so I can continue doing favors for her. How can I tell if she was sincere or not?


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Zack -  Mr. GenXer Profile

This sounds like a lesbian or hetrosexual moment. Tread carefully.

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Jaimie JT commented
Lol zack !!! :)
Zack -  Mr. GenXer
Somewhere along the line, I just gave up being serious.
Jaimie  JT
Jaimie JT commented
:) life's too short to be serious:) ... at the top of popular questions was "do you bird watch" after you answered this ... I was thinking I should steal your answer here for that question ... Then I thought yeah nah ... maybe not :)
Rooster Cogburn Profile
Rooster Cogburn , Rooster Cogburn, answered

Ask her this ! If she does it? She just might be sincere !

Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

I'm thinking it's pretty logical and common knowledge interms of behaviour.  Is she trust 'worthy' with your friendship .. Or not?

Cookie Roma Profile
Cookie Roma answered

Stop doing favors for her  If she continues to want a close friendship, or if she no longer wants a friendship, you'll have your answer 

Pepper pot Profile
Pepper pot answered

If you fancy her and are hoping this may go somewhere then ask her out. If she friend zones you then you know that she will continue to use you as a cash dispenser and errand boy.

I say this based on all your other questions, I gather no man would allow a woman to treat them this way unless they wanted more than friendship.

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