My boyfriend is always saying how sexy other girls are. I talk to him about it all the time and he doesn't care. Why are boys like that? It's so immature


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KB Baldwin Profile
KB Baldwin answered

I would suggest that it is not only immature, it is rude and inconsiderate.  You need to either learn to live with it, as he isn't going to change (at least in the short term) or duimp him and move on. 

Zack -  Mr. GenXer Profile

You said it yourself. He's a "boy" and "boys" do that sort of thing. If you don't like it, cut him lose. Everybody knows that "boys" are immature, but you seem to be the only person who doesn't know that.

Dance like a gypsy Profile

Most guys don't really talk about how sexy other girls are in front of their girlfriends so asking"why are guys like that?" Is a generalization. He's one individual who is obviously too immature to be in a relationship.

PJ Stein Profile
PJ Stein answered

If he is so disrespectful, why is he still your boyfriend? He has already told you he doesn't care how you feel. That should be the only sign you need to know he is not worth your time.

Megan goodgirl Profile
Megan goodgirl answered

yes that's it boys are like that, that's just the way it goes. I'm sure your bf still loves you very much.

Michael Poland Profile
Michael Poland answered

Right now your just browsing through time.

Choose the things that will mean the most,

and last the longest. You have your whole life

a head of you, don't waist it.

Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

Yes, he is immature if he is making you feel inept or unimportant .. It doesn't matter what the distraction is. This is not about his attentions towards other females .. This is about how HE makes YOU feel.  You can not control where he goes, what he does or says or admires .. But you can control his treatment of you. .. If not by mentioning how much it bothers you in an attempt to somehow finding a compromise then it's by walking away and finding someone a little more respectful towards you.

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