My crush says she likes me, but is dating another guy. I told her she was in a relationship, and she said that she would consider dating if/when they broke up. Advice?


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Matt Radiance Profile
Matt Radiance answered

This remind me of a customer trying to buy something and considering his options to catch the better product with reasonable price.

You can keep being friend with her but don't consider her as a relationship goal because the way she carry the values are so low and inappropriate.

Just take a deep breath.

Then listen to Bikergirl.

Janis Haskell Profile
Janis Haskell answered

Run away!  You are definitely not a priority in her life.  Go out there and have fun until you connect with someone who values the relationship as much as you do.  Don't be a standby option for anyone.

Yin And Yang Profile
Yin And Yang answered

Talk is talk..... Her actions say more then her words. You are setting yourself up for a heartache. :0(

Matt is right..... Listen to BikerGirl!

Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

Stay away .. Far away!

If that is any reflection of her moral standard then she's not worth having.

Negotiating a new relationship while you're still in a relationship is not cool!

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Bikergirl Anonymous
You may not think it is .. But it is. You may just be naive and not see it. She is sharing something with you that is completely inappropriate. .. Let me put it this way .. Consider this ... What if you were her current boyfriend .. How would you feel if you found out she had this same conversation with some other guy?
Noah Urbany
Noah Urbany commented
True, but she has been my friend for over four years and I can't just cut her off.
Noah Urbany
Noah Urbany commented
That may be why I am as naive as you say.

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