Theres this girl i had feelings for but thought i lost them. This weekend she confessed her feelings for me, we kissed multiple times and i still have feelings. Now see, i have a girlfriend, so i have feelings for two girls. What should i do pls help?

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Tom  Jackson Profile
Tom Jackson answered

We boys (& men) are hardwired to "mate"---it's an atavistic response, especially if you were attracted to her previously and now she has told you of her "feelings" for you.

Fortunately, we don't have to act on every impulse we have; and my suggestion to you is to not pursue her in any way.

Concentrate on the moment on your relationship with your current girlfriend---there are far too many potential negatives involved in attempting to pursue this second girl.

(And look up atavistic if you need to---it's a cool word.)

Virginia Lou Profile
Virginia Lou answered

Dear Not Important,

Way back in 1965, there was a rock band who addressed your dilemma, and they were called The Lovin' Spoonful...I will let them speak for themselves here...

Barb Cala Profile
Barb Cala answered

It sounds like you're in love with the idea of being in love .. Unrelated to who you're with at the moment.  But in fairness to your girlfriend ... Break up with her until you know what you want.  It's just not nice to play girls like this.

Cookie Roma Profile
Cookie Roma answered

I actually have really sound advice but I can't tell you how absolutely certain I am that you don't want to hear (it in this case, read) it.

Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

Sounds to me as if you are rather confused .. So confused, in fact that you are emotionally irresponsible... Clearly.

Perhaps, in fairness to the girlfriend you just cheated on and the girl you are encouraging to leave them both alone until you man up and get your head on straight.

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