I'm in love with my BFF. I have no idea if he is gay, bisexual or straight. He doesn't know that I'm bisexual. There are some signs that he might like me but im too scared to talk about it becase i don't want to lose him. Please help me?


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Virginia Lou Profile
Virginia Lou answered

Dear Bear West,

You have some options here...and since you do not want to chance losing his friendship, then perhaps not a direct conversation, not right now.

But for yourself, just know that if he did reject you altogether because of homophobia, then in the long run you have not lost much. Meanwhile, perhaps discuss with him some news items about current gay issues...

Once you know more about his approach to sexuality, you can then discern whether there might be potential for a romantic interest with you.

Walt O'Reagun Profile
Walt O'Reagun answered

Obviously, you are NOT that close to your "BFF" ... If you don't even know their sexual orientation.

Personally, I would guess that you are too young to even be concerned about such things ... And should be focusing on your education, instead.

Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

Personally, I would just stay BFFs for now and worry about the rest later as why ruin a good thing and slowly bring up the subject of being Bi and see how he reacts and go from there but leave status quo alone for now. Good luck

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