I am jealous of my sister. She is so mean and has everything. I want to ignore her, but I just can't seem to do it. Can anyone help me with this situation?


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Jann Nikka Profile
Jann Nikka answered

Marsha Marsha Marsha. She has everything.

Have a heart to đź’™ talk and you start being kind to her. It works both way.

Tom  Jackson Profile
Tom Jackson answered

There was a question on here recently about umpires leaning on the catcher during the baseball game.

In doing some research for that question I came across the comment that "umpiring is the only job where you have to start out perfect and get better."

While Jan Nicka's advice is certainly good, given the current dynamics between you and your sister, I suspect your doing that might being very difficult if not essentially impossible.

Your situation is one that could be helped by some short term counseling.

Exploring the best options to deal with this based on what is going on, has gone on, and what you want to start to go on would be a great advantage for you.

Best of luck.

Barb Cala Profile
Barb Cala answered

We have no idea how old you are and what exactly you're jealous about.  Is she older than you?  Younger?  We just need more details to give you a helpful answer.  But honestly, jealousy is really a very destructive emotion.  It's only hurting you and your relationship with your sister.  Better to just concentrate on being the best person you can be and then you'll feel less insecure about other people.

T  Ty Profile
T Ty answered

Jealousy is a very common yet destructive emotion. Love and contentment can conquer jealousy.  You have to learn how to rejoice with her as she rejoices over her accomplishments and at the same time not take it as a personal attack on your character.  Jealousy means that you are counting her blessings and not your own. Treat her like you want to be treated if the situation was reversed. What do you like about yourself? Focus on that and don't compare yourself to anyone.

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