I keep going on first dates where the man holds my hand, says I'm beautiful, kisses me and asks to see me again but then disappears. I only text right after the date to say "thank you." WHY?


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Rooster Cogburn , Rooster Cogburn, answered

Sounds like you've met a lot of "shallow" men. Most men aren't like that and if they actually meant the things they said to you, you would be getting more calls for more dates. Just keep trying until you find a real man who knows how to treat a lady.

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lala sonz
lala sonz commented
How? they all seem nice and into me and then POOF
Rooster Cogburn
Rooster Cogburn commented
It's not easy ! I've had that problem with some ladies myself until I met that one special one. The real ones will come along. Don't give up hope!
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Walt O'Reagun answered
Don't text "thank you" after the date.  If you say it at the end of the date, that's enough.  The text then seems "clingy".

Maybe YOU should try asking them for a second date ... After a few days have gone by.

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