I want to ask this girl out. We both like each other. The problem is she is my first real crush and I have no idea how to ask her out or what to do if she says yes. She doesn't even know I like her back. What do I do?


3 Answers

Ancient Hippy Profile
Ancient Hippy answered

Talk to her. You can't start a relationship without face to face conversation.

3 People thanked the writer.
View all 31 Comments
Elias Lourenco
Elias Lourenco commented
I was going to ask her today, then my friend pointed out a crucial flaw in my plan... The definition of ask her out! Do you have any good 1st date ideas? I've got nothin', and I would rather ask her if she wants to be my gf (at my age its not so serious, if you're dating they're basically your bf or gf) after a nice and very enjoyable date then randomly at school, even if it works either way we'll both enjoy it more if I put in a little effort for a good real first impression.
Elias Lourenco
Elias Lourenco commented
It's over and it went VERY well. Thanks!
Ancient Hippy
Ancient Hippy commented
Awesome, glad things went well for you Elias.
PJ Stein Profile
PJ Stein answered

It is this simple...

You: Hey ____. I was wondering if you would like to go _____ (get a coffee, to a movie, got to a school event/sport)

Her: That sounds like fun. Sure I would like to go.

2 People thanked the writer.
Elias Lourenco
Elias Lourenco commented
I was (am) scared of pretty girls and startin' conversations, oh my friend i'm turning green! This song is me.
PJ Stein
PJ Stein commented
Everyone is nervous. Even the pretty girl. You just have to push past it. The only way to have a regret free life is take those opportunities.
Elias Lourenco
Elias Lourenco commented
Yeah, I'll probably ask. When is the question. I'll try to show and not tell that I like her at first so she is ready when I ask her out.

Answer Question