Why are you allowing it to happen?
Get some self-respect, and end this cycle of drama once and for all.
Why are you allowing it to happen?
Get some self-respect, and end this cycle of drama once and for all.
It seems to be an ongoing thing, so probably so. Your relationship seems to be at a dead in road. It would be best for both of you if you let each other go and move on with your lives separately.
If it has been an ongoing thing, i would presume so, but why would you care? This is a relationship built on drama. Who wants that. Move on and save you both some grief. Do not go back out of guilt or comfort.
She loves me, she loves me not. Mature relationships don't rely on one person's whim, which this sounds like.
She breaks up with you, waits for you to come crawling back to her, she takes you back, breaks up with you, and the cycle continues.
Do you really think this is the sign of a mutual I-love-you relationship? Is this how you're going to allow yourself to be treated? If you were to do this to her, what would she do? Would she stand around while you treated her this disrespectfully? If the answer is no - then why do you allow her to do it to you?
I do not like drama in any shape or form. I don't like people that manipulate me to behave a certain way so they can get their way.
You can keep playing this game with her or you can accept the break-up and look around you. There are plenty of other girls out there that aren't her. They are all unique and there are plenty that don't treat you like crap.
A person can get addicted to being treated a certain way in a relationship and think it's fine. If this is you, you are setting yourself up to always be treated badly. I hope you have more respect for yourself than that.
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