I am a nerd and proud of it, but I've heard stories of nerds losing their personality when they fall in love. If I fall in love I don't want to stop being logical and be the "Oh, It's so and so" girl. Is it possible?


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Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

I am also a Nerd or was one once many years ago. The biggest thing here is people do NOT change unless they allow someone else change them.  

If a girl goes out with a nerd, theres a reason here, that  she likes nerds or is a nerd herself and not everyone has the idea of falling for someone just to change them so just be yourself and don't change for anyone for any reason.  Good luck

PJ Stein Profile
PJ Stein answered

My niece is a nerd. She has fallen in love with an equally nerdy guy. I suspect they will get married and have cute nerd babies. She is in her mid 20's and they really are the cutest couple I have seen in quite a while.

Claire MotherofPetey Profile

Being in love makes people act funny but only for a while. You will get back to your normal self before you know it.  Don't worry. You will probably even enjoy the being in love part.

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