why the hell am i SO AFRAID OF FALLING IN LOVE? I've tried to make myself be ok with the idea of being with someone but when it actually ends up happening, i freak out and leave


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Yin And Yang Profile
Yin And Yang answered

Next time you fall in love and start to get scared remember my saying...

No one knows what tomorrow holds

So if you can be happy today

Be happy today!

PJ Stein Profile
PJ Stein answered

I think you are over thinking it. Most of my relationships lasted 6 months or less. It wasn't out of fear of falling in love, it was the knowledge that the person wasn't someone I wanted to make a life long commitment with. If you aren't sure after 6 months, then you will never be sure. You just take each relationship as a learning experience. You learn what you like and what you don't like. Then when you do meet the right person, you will know.

So many people rush into what they think is love and end up with a lot of problems later. Take your time and learn about the person and yourself. When the right one comes along, you won't run.

carlos Striker Profile
carlos Striker answered

You simply scared of losing control of yourself. Like addiction you keep falling for it.  Ambivalent relationship.

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