From what Im reading here , there is no problem but you're trying to find one where none exists. None of us can please or impress everyone so others will always talk about us, good or bad. So you're believing what you hear and are trying desperately to find something wrong when there really isn't anything wrong at all. You just need to remember that you're the most beautiful girl you know in the Universe no matter what anyone else thinks or says. Don't judge yourself against others and be yourself and change for no one and you really are the only person you have to impress. There really isn't anything wrong here so quit trying to find something and move on, Good luck
