Is it a bad thing to always depend on people all the time? Because I had enough. I like to do my own thing and people try to control me way to much and I had enough.


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Didge Doo Profile
Didge Doo answered

There needs to be balance, Khauri. I certainly understand your need to be independent, and putting your foot down might be a good idea. But pleasing ONLY yourself is the kind of attitude that leads to anarchy.

Ya gotta find the compromise and there's nothing but headaches ahead.

Phineous J. Whoopee Profile

It depends on your age - if you are a minor, then you likely do need to depend on your parents/guardian for things and it would be perfectly normal and understandable.  If  you are a healthy adult, then you should start looking for  a job and an apartment, so you can live your own life and not depend on anyone else.

Dakota  Mackenzie Profile

I rely on others a lot for support when I'm depressed. They show me a reason to keep living... You do need to remember in tough times that you're an amazing person, you need to find a good balance, have those you can count on but also keep a strong hold on yourself. If you're too dependent without your support group, you'll crumble.

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