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My boyfriend hasn't been talking to me or anyone else? He had been depressed but wouldn't tell me what was wrong.. He has not spoken to anybody in a very long time. What do I do? Should I forget him? It's been awhile..

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Darling Divaa answered

I would sit him down and tell him that you are very worried about him and that you care for him. Suggest he see someone who can help him. Please don't forget about him, just be there for him. 

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RAWR Said the Dinosaur
Thank you.. but it's hard to do that when he won't even answer his phone and the house he's staying at, I have no idea how to get there.
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Darling Divaa commented
Just keep leaving messages on his voice mail. Tell him that you care about him and that you'll be there if he needs you. That's about all you can do.
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Yo Kass answered

I would recommend trying to reach out as much as possible. Message him, call him, even write him a letter - anything to show that you care and that you're there to support him.

Eventually though, if he doesn't make contact with you, then there'll come a point when you'll have to let him do his own thing. Without knowing why he's being distant, it's impossible for you (or anyone else) to know what to do to make things right. Relationships are a two way thing, and you deserve happiness and attention as much as he does.

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