Okay I'm 29 years old and I'm still a virgin. Is that alright? I'm not ashamed of it.

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Niki ta Profile
Niki ta answered

So. Nothing wrong with that. I would be more ashamed if I slept with loads of people just moving on to the next. So I think being a virgin is something to be proud of.

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Niki ta
Niki ta commented
What being a virgin or a person who sleeps with loads of people?
Rooster Cogburn
Rooster Cogburn commented
Being a virgin! These kids around here are talking about sex at age 13 and 14.
Niki ta
Niki ta commented
Oh yeah, where I live some have it before graduating elementary or middle school and 11 year olds try to get pregnant it is crazy!
Cyber Tooth Tiger Profile

Yes, I wouldn't let it bother me if I were you. There are lots of virgins out there; I'm 46 and still a virgin, well I never met the right woman to come in my life and to be honest I really don't believe in giving myself to a woman unless I know we're going make a love connection. I really do hate to get harassed by people about it but I tell them like it is, I don't owe them anything.

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Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

Good for you! This is very admirable as not too many can say this nowadays. The biggest thing here is as long as you're happy with your life, it really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks of you. Dance to your own drummer and let everyone else do as they please. There is nothing wrong at all with you and is extremely rare but OK. When the right time and person comes along, it will happen but stand your own ground here and let no one change you unless you are absolutely ready. Good luck and Merry Christmas

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Lynn Blakeman answered

It is perfectly okay that you are still a virgin at 29, and as others on here have said, I admire you for it.

There is no "right" age to lose your virginity because it is supposed to happen when you meet the person that is right for you, and that can happen at any time. 
Too many people think that virginity is something to be ashamed of and they have a need to have sex as soon as possible to be like their friends.

This is a terrible attitude. Virginity is precious and something that you never get back. To lose it to the love of your life is a beautiful thing, but to lose it on a drunken one night stand is a disgrace. People who do that obviously have no respect for their body, whereas you have shown that you really do respect yourself which is commendable.

I know the person who you finally do have sex with will be most appreciative that you have saved yourself for them and the connection will be more special because of this.

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