Is it okay that I'm 30 and still a virgin?

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Danae Hitch Profile
Danae Hitch answered

There's no shame in it. If you're comfortable with your status, that's all that should matter.

Didge Doo Profile
Didge Doo answered

A guy named C.S.Lewis once said, "the man who never tasted wine will value beer too highly".

Of course it's OK, if that's what you want. But most of us have learned that virginity is only valued highly by those who have never tasted sex. (Tasted? Not necessarily literally.)

If you're happy about that, it's nobody's business but your own.

Call me Z Profile
Call me Z answered

If it doesn't bother you, why should it bother anyone else. Do know however, that you are missing out on something really worthwhile.


Tyson Evans Profile
Tyson Evans answered

I'm 15 and a virgin, which is good. :P 30? I don't want to upset you but, I kind of agree with Serenity :/ If you're okay with it though, that's okay too :3!

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I know and I kinda thought she might think like that. She may have asked so people would tell her otherwise. I know I have plenty of time :3 My hand is okay now, it's my right hand and I am, in fact, right handed. xD Writing at school is hard, my teachers were nice enough to print notes out for me instead of having me copy it down :3
Matt Radiance Profile
Matt Radiance answered

It's perfectly fine,  there's no measurement that we need to lose our virginity by a particular age or time & our life doesn't define by our sexual status or marriage. It's a very personal preference & choice. You are director of your life, you can make it happen & look however you want so as long as you be satisfied with your choice, you're fine,

& it's so strange to me, the way you point "30" & being virgin, it's just like you are 80 years old! 30 is young yet, it's a starting stage for each human, beside everything i said, being virgin at 30 is so normal, you have most of your life ahead of you.

Vicky Howe Profile
Vicky Howe answered

Of course it's OK, and it sickens me when people think it isn't. Why should you and your social standing be defined by whether or not you've lost your virginity? Some people never find the one, some people are physically scared of having it, some people just don't want it, and some people just don't care. If you want to have it - fine. Just be safe, is all I'm gonna say. Don't feel pressured, or else you'll just feel worse.

Patricia Valencia Profile

I am 26 and I am still a virgin doesn't bother me, and if it doesn't bother you then it's ok. If I had a boyfriend that I had true feelings for I wouldn't see a problem with just losing it. I know I am not going to be experienced, but I honestly don't feel like it's a mission he just needs to give me a couple of seconds to figure it out, and I will be riding the pony in no time. (lol)

Twallgirl Wallace Profile

Absoutely. You have no idea who is proud of you. Our creator, Jehovah God, the highest person in the universe is smiling. The bible tells us that sex is for married people.  On a personal note never let anyone pressure you to make a life altering decision. Make everything a matter of prayer

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