I am dating this guy but he grabbed my arm and it hurt and now I am scared of him, what should I do?


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Kathryn Amis Profile
Kathryn Amis answered

I had alarm bells ringing in my head when I read your question!

I know everyone gets mad and makes mistakes,  and maybe you could talk to him about it and explain how you feel?  It is possible it may never happen again.

But - and it’s a big but...you said you were hurt and now you’re scared. 

That says to me that you don’t feel completely safe with this guy - that’s not a good place to be.

Scared  is the same as being frightened and panicky and intimidated - all the things that are the opposite of the way a guy should make you feel - like loved and wanted and cared for and secure.

It’s never easy to walk away, especially if you have deeper feeling for someone - but it could be the best thing to do.

Stay safe and happy. X

Nikki Ridgerider Profile

Has this sort of thing happened on more than one occasion? If so, you should think of contacting a family member or the authorities if you think he'll hurt you. I would try to break up with him, but I don't know how, as I would be scared. If somebody intimidates you, you shouldn't hang around with them. I don't know what it's called, but there's an app that lets the authorities know if you're in an abusive situation, but it's disguised as a regular news app. I believe it was created by Dr. Phil's wife. Please don't let yourself be in any sort of danger longer than you have to be.

grimlock dinobot Profile

If he hurts you then you should break up with him and find someone who treats you right.

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