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I have a crush on this guy. He knows and he said it was okay. We've never talked and when he first found out he didn't mind at all. But lately he's been avoiding me. When we see each other he turns around and walks away in front of me. It hurts. What do I do?

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Saikrishna Swarna Profile

According to this he may be in some kind of problem...

Faith Stockler Profile
Faith Stockler answered

I think you should ask him if he is OK and if he does not hear you try to find a way to ask him like leave him a note on his door step or if you go to school put a note in his locker

Lia Tan Profile
Lia Tan answered

I can only guess what is going on in his mind but from your description, it does seem like he's a bit weirded out by it. I mean at first he may say that it was okay because he was flattered. Knowing that someone likes you always makes you feel good about yourself (unless this person really really really creeps you out). So since he didn't really know who you are and wasn't creeped out by you in the first place, he felt happy and good about himself.

But you saw it as a green light is my assumption and you tried getting close to him. That's when he realized that he doesn't actually want to be with you and it was his mistake for not saying so earlier. This would explain why he's starting to avoid you because he felt bad for not telling you "no" when he had the chance. Instead of facing things head on, he simply runs away which is rather cowardly but is a pretty common thing for people to do.

But like I said in the beginning, I can only guess what is going on in his head. I'm not saying that this is exactly how it is, but I'm only suggesting a likely scenario of what is really happening here. Whether or not my assumptions are true, the fact that he's avoiding you is a bad sign especially since he seemed to be okay with it at first. That's why, as hard as it is to do so, you'll have to let him go and move on. This guy is obviously not someone who is right for you to date at this moment and that's perfectly okay. Anyway, I wish you luck!

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Jess Taylor answered

Yeah, maybe he has found out some of your secret . If he has then he might decide to consider you again.  Or he has some kind of problem like gay!  I hope he isn´t.

To make it clear, you should call, sms, or chat to alert him. Then your chance is coming.

Thanks

Sonouern

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Anonymous answered

You're hurt? Its just a crushy thingy he's over reacting. Maybe you have a right to be hurt cause its like he's totally avoiding you and it affect your self-confidence and starting to ask yourself whats wrong with you and all. Maybe you can just ignore him too. In that way you can clearly show him that you're not affected. And its just a crush nothing serious in that way he'll start to think its nothing and act normally in front of you.

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