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I had a crush on this guy for a long time but then everyone figured out. Apparently someone asked what he thought of me and he's like "yeah she's pretty but she's obsessed with me". I just told a popular person to tell him I don't but I'm scared. What do I do?

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Lia Tan answered

If stuff like this happens, the best approach is to act as if nothing had happened. Pretend that you didn't know and that things are still cool. Don't act all awkward around anyone. This will show your level of maturity.

And since your crush thinks that you are obsessed with him, show that you aren't. This time, prove to him that you have other things on your mind by ignoring him for a bit. Of course don't do it excessively but enough times to prove your point. Telling someone to tell him that you aren't kind of defeats the purpose of you not being obsessed. This shows that you care about what he thinks. It isn't a sign of obsessions necessarily, but it definitely isn't a sign of indifference. You need to show that you can be indifferent to him too, that you are not someone who he can easily get. That's how you let your crush know that you aren't obsessed with him. Actions speak louder than words.

thanked the writer.
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awsome helper commented
I need help with a problem but I am scared to talk to my mom
I've been dating this guy for 4 years yesterday at school he grabbed my arm it hurt me what should i do I am confused why did he grab me like that and should I just act like nothing happened I am scared of my boyfriend know what should I do?
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Lia Tan commented
Wait so did your boyfriend grab your arm or did another guy grab your arm?

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